Friday, December 16, 2011

Let's talk about sex...sorry girls and even women...you're going to be disappointed

I'm not going in to the freaky deaky kinky stuff for the time being ( my grandmother would kill me) but I do want to address a growing and sad issue: Plan B. Multiple times each work week that I've worked as a tech and now as an intern, I see panicky scared little girls come in for Plan B or send in their boyfriends to buy it because they are TERRIFIED that their parents will find out what dumb ass little teenage loser they let wallow in their baby gutter. This needs to stop.

If you are so afraid or too embarrassed or too immature to have an open adult dialogue with your parents about sex then you have NO business screwing...better terms of the french word...F******(you know what that word is) !!! My parents (well my mother, lord help i couldn't imagine my father discussing this with me) made sure I knew about baby making and venereal disease and got on birth control at an appropriate age. What is an appropriate age? That has been debated by religious and parent/teacher groups for years. I recommend operating on the "old enough to bleed, old enough to breed" paradigm.

Upon a girl's first menstruation it is imperative that parents have a discussion about dealing with blood, birth control, and venereal disease. Let's face it, being a girl is disgusting and it helps to have a good home support system. Parents should have the talk with boys when they start getting "morning wood" and "nocturnal emissions" aka acting like a dog in heat. It is up to the parents how detailed they want to get and if they want to take the mom tackles daughter, dad tackles son on the talks. They also need to agree on rules for dating for their children and please allow them to take the health course at school that goes over reproduction and social responsibility for their offspring. It seems this education has been lacking on all fronts worldwide.
Sadly I saw this quote about teen sex and it resembles and refers to the HORRENDOUS most annoying and disappointing show I have ever watched in my entire life...Teen Mom. So here it is and sadly this is beyond true in MANY cases:
Teenage girl from the 1990's who just found out she was pregnant-"OMG! My mother and father are going to kill me! What am I going to do!?!?"
Teenage girl from the 2010's who just found out she was pregnant-"OMG YES! I can be on Teen MOM now and get $200,000!!!"

Like I said this is sadly true, and MTV is pretty much promoting teen pregnancy in my opinion by having this show.  It is nothing but a bunch of little bratty girls who are disrespectful to their parents and everyone surrounding them.  Little do people know, these "girls" get paid ample amounts of money for being on this show so pretty much MTV is saying "hey high school girls...get pregnant and you can make mega bucks"  its disgusting and sad and those people need a good punch in the face!!!

well if that isn't enough negativity for you girls who solely depend on Plan B every time you are dumb and have unprotected sex and do God knows what else....it isn't as effect as our perfect world would hope it to be.  Look it up in clinical trials its quite scary how it really doesn't have an affect with preventing pregnancies.  So, girls...if you do bad things and aren't smart about them, then that stork we all thought was the "baby bringer" when we were little is going to come visit you. Plan B or not. Sorry!!!

Knowledge is power and with the potential to make a baby teens should have greater responsibility and knowledge for planning a baby at an appropriate time in life instead of having one and dropping it in a dumpster or using it for a welfare check. I guarantee many of your children are having sex and not telling you about it. Make sure you have a good little sit down chat. If you are uncomfortable with it there is a Planned Parenthood where you can make an appointment for your child to talk to a health care professional for any questions they are uncomfortable asking you. Let's take the fear out of growing up and bring RESPONSIBILITY back to our baby-making!

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